Father Figures: The Impact of Male Role Models on Boys Without Fathers
Father's Day is a time to reflect on the impact of father figures in our lives. Growing up without a dad can leave a void that other male role models can help fill. Charles Blow shares his experience of his parents' split when he was five and his father's struggle with alcoholism. Despite this, he was fortunate to have other men, like grandfathers, uncles, neighbors, and coaches, step in to provide guidance and support.
One organization making a difference in the lives of boys without fathers is Son of a Saint in New Orleans. Founded by Bivian "Sonny" Lee III, whose father passed away when he was young, the organization aims to mentor boys who have lost their fathers. They offer a range of programs and support, including mentors and case teams to address the boys' academic and emotional needs.
During a visit to Son of a Saint's headquarters, Charles Blow witnessed the positive impact of the organization on boys like 16-year-old twins Michael and Robert, who joined the program after their father's passing. The boys spoke enthusiastically about the opportunities provided by the organization, such as summer camps in the Northeast. Many of the boys celebrated Father's Day with their mentors from the program, highlighting the importance of male role models in their lives.
Son of a Saint's focus on providing support and guidance to boys without fathers is a testament to the power of community and mentorship in shaping young lives. Through their programs and dedicated mentors, the organization is helping boys navigate the challenges of growing up without a dad, offering them a sense of belonging and support.