Breaking the Stigma: Men as Victims of Stalking - Post Malone's Case in Utah
Post Malone is currently dealing with a stalking case in Utah, shedding light on the fact that men can also be victims of stalking, despite the common perception that it primarily affects women. Stalking affects about 1 in 3 women and 1 in 6 men nationally, according to the Stalking Prevention, Awareness, and Resource Center. While women are more commonly targeted, men's experiences of stalking are often overlooked, stigmatized, and underreported.
Recently, a 31-year-old woman named Cherish Gomer was arrested near Post Malone's home in Cottonwood Heights, Utah, on suspicion of stalking and violating a permanent criminal stalking injunction. This case highlights the challenges men face in dealing with stalkers, even when they take precautions to protect themselves. In Utah, both men and women experience physical violence, sexual violence, and stalking by intimate partners, with 34% of women and 21% of men affected.
According to Kimmi Wolf from the Utah Domestic Violence Coalition, Post Malone's situation demonstrates that even individuals with resources and security measures in place can struggle to escape a stalker. In Utah, civil stalking injunctions are more common than criminal ones due to the lower standard of proof required. It is essential to recognize that stalking can happen to anyone, regardless of gender, and support resources are available for those experiencing stalking or cyberstalking.
If you or someone you know is experiencing stalking, you can contact the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 800.656.HOPE (4673) for assistance from trained specialists. Remember that stalking is a serious issue that can affect anyone, and seeking help is crucial in addressing and preventing further harm.